People love to stay in touch. Whether that’s chatting to friends and family on video calls, messaging on WhatsApp or touching base while working remotely with Microsoft Teams or Slack. Gamers are no different.
In the old days, gamers would make use of text chat services like X-Fire or VOIP servers like Mumble, Teamspeak or Ventrilo. Things have come a long way since then though and both technology and demands have changed.
Now the modern gamer needs something that can do it all and Discord is the free software that does just that.
What is Discord?
At a basic level, Discord is one of the easiest ways to communicate with your friends via voice, text and video. If you’ve experienced Slack in the workplace, then think of Discord as the same thing, only aimed squarely at gamers and with a lot more features.
You can also use it straight in a web browser without even downloading it. So not only can you use it while you’re at your gaming machine, but you can stay in touch when you’re out and about too.
Discord lets friends chat with each other either one-to-one or as a group via a server. You can use it to send direct messages to friends, have video calls with them, voice chat and even screen share.
Once you’re on a server, you can join a voice chat channel to get talking to other gamers playing specific games.
Discord is very user focussed and can be as private or public as you want it to be. Using Discord you are able to choose:
- Who you add as friends and who can add you
- Who can send you direct messages
- Who you block
- What servers you join
- Who can join the servers you create
How to get started using Discord
The first step to getting started using Discord is to download it on your chosen device. Then you need to register for an account. It’s worth noting that there are no costs to this. Discord is totally free to use.
When setting up your account, we’d highly recommend using a strong and secure password and setting up Two-Factor Authentication to protect your account from being used by anyone else and to keep it safe. Discord has a detailed guide on setting up Two-Factor Authentication for the app which is worth checking out.
Once you’re logged in, you can then access a variety of other options from the settings menu. Click on the cog icon in the bottom left of the screen and you can then change all sorts of settings.
This includes things like privacy settings, authorised apps, keybindings, voice and video settings and more. If you want to stay safe online, then we’d recommend looking at the privacy settings first. From there you can set Discord to scan direct messages and stop you from receiving anything inappropriate.
If you’re using public servers, you can also choose to disable settings that might allow server members to send you unwanted messages or add you as a friend.
How to find and add Discord friends
Obviously, a chat app is not much use if you don’t have anyone to talk to. Luckily adding friends is fairly straightforward. When you’re logged in and on the home page, you’ll see an option marked friends and a big green button to “Add Friend”. Ask your friends what their Discord tag is and you can add them from here.
A user’s Discord tag is their username with a # and four digits after it. This looks something like this provokedprawn#3221 and can be found from the “My Account” page of your settings.
Another, perhaps easier way to add friends on Discord is to right-click them when you’re on a server together then click Add Friend. Of course, these options will only work if the people you’re trying to add have their privacy settings set in such a way that they will receive invites from everyone.
You can also add friends by connecting your other accounts. Add Facebook as a connection under the settings menu and you can sync your friends from the social network who are already using Discord.
Basic settings to tweak
There are a few different settings within Discord that we’d recommend changing or tweaking before you go any further.
- Voice and video settings: From here you can choose your microphone and headphone input and output as well as the volumes. It’s a good idea to test these settings and volumes before you start.
- Input mode: As part of the voice and video settings, you’ll find “voice activity” and “push to talk” as options under input mode. We’d highly recommend using push to talk. This requires a button press every time you talk, but you’ll soon find out there’s nothing worse than having a person on your voice chat server who has a mic that’s constantly picking up their keyboard sounds, a fan whirr or a dog barking in the background. Don’t be that person.
- Overlay: In the settings, you can adjust Discord so an overlay appears when you’re playing to show you who’s talking. It’s good to know who you’re chatting to when you’re gaming. Especially if you want to make new friends.
- Notifications: Another thing to tweak is notification sounds. As default, Discord will make all sorts of noises when things happen, for example, if someone calls you or joins the channel. If you’ve set up push to talk, we’d recommend unticking PTT activate and PTT deactivate or you’ll constantly hear beeps every time you press your key.
Chatting with friends
Once you’ve added friends and got all the settings tweaked nicely, it’s incredibly simple to get started chatting. Click on your friend on the left-hand side and you can send them messages, click to call them and video chat too.
Discord gives you plenty of ways to chat and communicate with your friends. You can use simple text, emoticons and even add gifs. Discord also lets you share images, so you can send your pals screenshots of your winning games for them to admire.
The best way to enjoy Discord though is with servers.
What are Discord servers?
Discord servers are free places where people can gather to chat about games or use voice channels to talk with friends as they play. You’ll find there are all sorts of servers out there. Game developers, for example, often have servers running for their games so like-minded gamers can get together and discuss the game and make new friends too.
You will also find clans, communities and groups of people with their own Discord server that they might invite you to.
How to create a Discord server
Discord servers are free to create. So you have the option to create your own server that you can then use to invite friends to.
To create your own Discord server follow these steps:
- Login to Discord
- Click the green plus symbol on the left-hand side and click “create a server”
- Once created you can then click the plus symbol under “text channels” and “voice channels” to add new channels
- You’ll also find a drop-down menu at the top under the server’s name where you can access server settings
Server settings let you do all sorts of things. From here you can create roles for members, including setting up admin powers for trusted friends. You can also set moderation levels to stop new users spamming text chat or sending inappropriate messages. You can even add custom emojis and create a widget for your server you can share elsewhere here too.
Once your Discord server is created, right-click on either the text channel or voice channel and click invite to then send your friends an invite or create a link that’ll help others join your server. You can set an expiry time, max number of uses and even tick to make the membership temporary too if you want to take care around who joins your server.
Discord server text channels
Discord’s text channels are useful for all sorts of things. You can set them up for general banter, to discuss specific games, to organise gaming sessions with your friends or simply to share things you’ve found online.
Discord voice channels
Voice channels are chat rooms you can just for VOIP purposes. Drop into a channel and get talking with your friends using your headset and have a great time.
It’s worth noting that the server gives you various controls depending on whether you created the server or not. You can do simple things like increase or decrease another user’s volume in voice channels by simply right-clicking their name and adjusting a volume slider. There are also options to mute, kick, ban and more if you set up the server or have the right privileges.
When in a server, you can also mute and deafen yourself to stop from being heard or hearing others when you need quiet time. Alternatively, there’s usually an AFK (away from keyboard) channel when you need it.
Read the rules
If you’re creating a Discord server and you want people to behave in a certain way then you can create a rules channel. It’s also possible to ensure new members read those rules before doing anything else.
You can access these settings from within your server settings menu by going to server settings > community > membership screening.
How to join a Discord server
Like creating your own Discord server, it’s easy to join one too.
You can also be a member of more than one Discord server. In fact, you can join multiple servers with very little fuss. Membership is limited to a maximum of 100 servers.
To join a Discord server you first need an invite from a friend or server owner. Ask them to create a link for you. Then click the plus symbol on the left of the server and click the “join a server” button. That allows you to input the link and get started. Alternatively, you can just click the hyperlink and it will load Discord with the new server open.
If a link doesn’t work it might be because you’ve been sent an expired code, been banned from the server or it’s just a bad code.
If you join a larger server, you might find that things get a bit overwhelming at times. If text channels are used a lot you’ll find yourself bombarded with notifications or icons when a channel gets a new message in it. We find it’s often best to mute channels you don’t need or want to hear from.
Right-click on a text channel and you can choose to either mute the channel as a whole or set it to only notify you if someone mentions you.
In channels, it is possible to mention users directly with @username. Type in their name and then your message and they’ll be notified. You can also use other commands like @here or @everyone to alert everyone on the server. If there are people who love the attention they might use and abuse that and it drive you mad. Don’t worry, you can always turn the notifications off, so you’re never notified if you don’t want to be.
There are various commands you can use on Discord servers. These give you quick access to settings or let you do simple things like adding a hilarious gif into the middle of a chat.
Basic commands include:
- @username – This mentions a particular user and will notify them of your message. Replace “username” with the name of the person on the server to send them a note.
- @here or @everyone – notifies everyone to grab their attention for something special
- /giphy term – Insert a gif into the text chat channel
- /nick name – It’s possible to set a new nickname specifically for the server if you’re not happy with your current name without changing your username entirely
- /TTS message – this command has your message read aloud by a text-to-speech synthesiser. Use with care though as it’ll quickly be shut down by server admins if it is overly used
- /spoiler message – this allows you to send a message but hidden behind a spoiler warning to stop ruining things for people.
- /tableflip, /unflip and /shrug – these are just daft extra commands that add various emojis into the chat including the classic table flip and shrug emoji
There are a few other commands you can use as well, but these are the best ones. They are also subject to change as Discord is regularly being updated and improved.
What are Discord bots?
As standard, Discord is already pretty feature-rich and intelligent too. As a server grows, it can be tough to manage though and keep an eye on things. Discord bots are useful in various ways. You can add bots to your server to help moderate or do other clever things like integrating with other services and apps too.
There are various officially supported server bots available and unofficial ones as well these bots include:
- Moderation bots: These bots are designed to automatically manage your server. They will prevent spam, handle user banning and make it easier to use admin commands from the chat too. Examples of moderation bots include MEE6, Dyno, GAwesomeBot and Gaius.
- Translation bots: If your server has users from all over the world then a bot that is capable of translating into multiple languages is bound to be a welcome addition. New View does just that.
- Image bots: Jazz up your server with bots that can bring images in beyond your usual gifs. Dank Memer promises to fill your Discord server with hilarious memes.
- Music bots: These bots bring music into your server via YouTube, SoundCloud, Twitch and other services. Rythm bot also comes with lyrics, various commands and more.
- Game bots: Idle hands are the devil’s plaything. When server users aren’t gaming or chatting, you can keep them engaged with game bots. Cafe is one interesting example.
How to stream on Discord – Go Live mode
We already know it’s possible to stream your gaming on Twitch, YouTube, Mixer and more. But if you want to stream to a smaller audience you can use Discord’s Go Live mode to show off your gameplay to your friends.
To stream on Discord follow these steps:
- Click the little TV button with an arrow near your profile settings in the bottom left of the app
- Select the application or screen you want to stream
- Then choose the voice channel you want to stream in
- Then click Go Live and you’ll be live for people to watch
- Click invite to grab a direct link to give to your friends to watch
You’ll find a picture-in-picture view of your stream in the corner of Discord. You can also adjust the stream quality and frame rate from here too. Though you need a Discord Nitro subscription to get the higher 1080p and 4K settings here.
To watch other users who are streaming, you just need to watch out for the “live” icon by their names in the voice channels. Click their username and you can then click the “watch stream” button to watch the fun unfold.
It’s worth noting that Discord’s Go Live function lets you stream to up to 10 people normally but currently has a limit of 50.
Discord screen sharing
As well as going live on Discord, you can also share your screen with individuals and small groups. This is perfect if a friend needs tech support or you just want to show someone something without the hassle of capturing video and uploading it to YouTube.
To start screen sharing you first need to start a video call. Click on a friend, click the video camera icon at the top of Discord and start the call. You’ll then see the screen-sharing icon at the bottom of the screen. Click that and you get the option to choose which screen or application to share.
Find out more about screen sharing on Discord here.
What is Discord Nitro?
For the most part, Discord is free to use. There’s no cost to use the app or to start a server. However, if you’re loving the experience you can subscribe to Discord Nitro.
Nitro enhances your already awesome Discord experience with access to things like animated emojis, bigger file uploads, higher-quality streaming options and more. It’s priced at $9.99 a month or $99.99 a year. Nitro is a good way to show your support for Discord and show off as a result too.
For the Discord pro user, there are a number of keyboard shortcuts you can use to quickly engage with Discord and get your message heard. Here are just some of the best ones. Firstly, press tab on your keyboard, then use your arrow key to highlight a particular message and use these shortcuts:
- Q – quote message
- + – add reaction
- r – reply to message
- p – pin message
- ALT+Enter – mark unread
Discord Stage Channels
With a Stage Channel, users can create a place where people can present to an audience in a comfortable and engaging way.
When setup, there are three specific roles – speakers, moderators and the audience. Speakers are the only ones who can talk in the channel, while the moderators are there to keep things flowing. The audience is there to listen but can indicate they’d like to talk if the audience is allowed to participate.
At this point, Stage Channels are only available for community servers (find out how to enable that here). But when you do create one you can run all sorts of audio-centric events like voice ask-me-anything sessions, interviews, reading clubs, presentations and more.
Audience members can leave and join on a whim, without interrupting the speaker and the whole thing is designed to be seamless.
Discord has made some changes to Discord Stages where it’s now allowing video, screen sharing and text chat support to Stages. For free, you can now share with up to 50 audience members and if your server boosting to Tier 2 or Tier 3 Stage channels can support up to 150 or 300 viewers.
The main presenter and five other chosen people can use video while in Stage mode and screen sharing is available too.
There’s also a dedicated text chat channel for users to engage with too.
Discord and PlayStation
Discord isn’t just for PC gamers. Discord has also worked with PlayStation to add the ability to link your PSN account to Discord. This means that console gamers can connect things up so that PlayStation 4 and PlayStation 5 game activity can be shown right on your Discord user profile. So your friends will know what you’re playing with just a glance.
This connection also means that Discord users can add their PSN ID to their profile so other Discord users can simply add you as a PlayStation friend and game with you.
In order to add your PSN to Discord you just need to follow these steps. Open up Discord then go to settings, then to connections, from there you’ll see the PSN option. Click that and you’ll then need to login into your PSN account and then you have the option to choose whether you display it on your profile or not.
Discord voice chat on PS5
Discord and PlayStation have that Discord voice chat is coming to PS5. It’s currently available to PS5 beta participants and will be available to more users later in 2023.
To use Discord voice chat on PS5, you just need to follow these steps:
- From your console connect your PlayStation Network account to your Discord account and grant voice access (you may need to grant new permissions if you’ve linked these accounts before)
- Join the voice channel you want to talk in on Discord
- From Discord (either on desktop, via a browser or from the mobile app) find the option to “Transfer to Console” and select your Playstation 5 console
- Click to “Transfer Voice” and then get started using Discord on your console
Discord Voice chat on Xbox
Microsoft has announced that Discord Voice chat is coming to both Xbox Series X/S and Xbox One consoles as well. At the moment it’s only for Xbox Insiders but will be rolling out further in future.
We’ve written a guide on how to get started with voice chat on Xbox here but you’ll need to connect a link between your Discord and Xbox accounts to make it work and use the Xbox App too.
With this connection you’ll be able to chat to friends when you’re on your Xbox, no matter the platform they’re on.
Discord and creators
One of the big uses for Discord is for creators. Content creators, Twitch streamers, influencers and more use Discord to build communities using Discord. It’s perfect for sharing content, engaging with an audience, keeping people up to date with what’s happening and more.
Discord is working on making this even better in future with things like Premium Memberships. This is a system where creators will be able to craft paid memberships, with tiers, to deliver specific benefits to their most valuable fans. The plan here is to strengthen the communities and help creators deliver even more.
Discord is adding new functionality to its app known as “Activities”. These are games and apps that you can play with your friends directly in the app with your friends while on calls with them.
Essentially these are simple multiplayer games, some with a Jackbox style to them including games that get your drawing things that your friends have to guess. Card games, games of chess, mini golf, it’s all on offer.
Some of these games are locked behind the paid Nitro subscription service. So you might need Nitro in order to be able to play.
The current list of activities includes:
- Watch Together
- Putt Party
- Poker Night
- Sketch Heads
- Chess in the Park
- Blazing 8s
- Letter League
- Checkers in the Park
How to start an activity
It’s fairly easy to start an activity. The first step is to join a Discord voice channel or voice call then click the button at the bottom that looks like a rocket and that’ll launch the Activity Launcher. This button is located near the button you’d use to start streaming on Discord.
When the activity launcher starts you can just pick an activity to play from the library, though you’ll need to provide permission.
To get your friends to join you’ll all need to be in the same voice channel. Then you can then get started having fun.
How to leave a Discord server
Over time you might well have joined a fair few different Discord servers and perhaps your interest has waned, you’re fed up with getting notifications or you just want to tidy up your server list.
Well not to worry as it’s easy to leave a Discord server. So to do this you just need to follow these steps:
- Open up Discord on your phone or on your desktop or laptop
- Click on the left-hand side menu and navigate to the relevant server
- When you’re on that server then click on the name of the server at the top left
- This will open up a drop-down option
- You can then click “leave server”
- You’ll then get a pop-up survey to ask why you’re leaving the server so you can give feedback
How to delete a Discord server
If you’ve created a Discord server but no longer need it is possible to delete it and remove it from the platform.
Doing so will delete all the content but it will also remove all the members from the server and therefore cannot be reversed.
It’s not easy to accidentally delete a server, fortunately, so follow these steps to remove it:
- Launch the Discord app on your smartphone or desktop machine
- Click to load the Discord server you wish to delete by finding it on the left menu
- Click the name of the server on the top left to open the menu
- From the dropdown click on server settings to access those options
- On the left of the next page look for the “Delete Server” option and click it
- Click to confirm on the pop-up and the server will be deleted
What controls does Discord offer to parents and guardians?
While Discord loosely requires users be aged 13 or older upon signing up for account, it does not verify their age in that process. For better or worse, it’s given kids and young adults a private online space to hang out with people they share interests with. But the private and online characteristics of that space do contravene each other sometimes and that has led to situations where vulnerable users are taken advantage of by those who hold trust and power in that community.
In July 2023, Discord introduced the Family Center: a way for parents and guardians to monitor their child’s activity without completely sacrificing their privacy. Caretakers are able to view an activity dashboard at any time covering how much their teenager has communicated over the past seven days.
- How many friends they’ve added
- How many they’ve messaged or called
- How many servers they’re actively participating in
All these metrics are also available in a weekly email.
Caretakers can view some specific information about the people and servers their child has interacted with including names, avatars, icons, member counts, and times of last sent messages or calls. They cannot see the contents of any messages. However,
If you want to set up Family Center, make sure both you and your under-18 or parent are available and have a Discord account. Discord determines Parent and Teen roles based on your age which you provided with your birthday upon signing up for an account. To proceed:
- Open the app, select your avatar at the bottom-right corner of the screen, and then select Family Center.
- Select Connect with Parent or Connect with Teen on your respective phones.
- The Parent should then scan the QR code that appears on the Teen’s device.
- The Teen must then consent to having their activity data being seen by their Parent. Once they confirm, the dashboard populates.
A single parent or guardian is able to connect with up to eight child accounts at a time. They’ll need to repeat the above process each time they want to add a new account.